These "tell others about yourself" things never really do give a good impression of what a person is really like. In order to truly get a good idea of who a person is you really need a conversation so I'll keep it brief. Plus not everyone likes to read as much as I do. So, through a mixture of luck and hard work I've checked all the big things in life off my bucket list. All that's really left is to enjoy my life and have a good time. The reason I joined this site in particular is I figured it I would have a better chance of finding people online that I would like to spend time with in real life. I'm pretty sexually liberal and I enjoy the company of like minded people.

My Ideal Person I think a clever person could figure out more about me from what I'm interested in with another person than what I think of myself. So I'll take more care and go a little more in depth here.

I really don't have an "ideal" person. I am straight so I like women... or, couples where the couple is happy with me paying all my attention to the woman, sexually speaking of course.

Because I don't have any truly strict physical attributes that I look for in a woman personality tends to be the most important thing for me. What I look for in a woman is a happy, relaxed, laid back go with the flow kind of personality. But, at the same time she shamelessly knows what she wants and has no problem communicating it. There is nothing that turns me on more than a woman sincerely and breathlessly gasping, " right there, don't stop" ,or that mischievous glint in her eyes as she's telling me something she really likes or really wants to try.

I've had friends with benefits relationships, intense monogamous intimate relationships, and I've enjoyed both. I'm down for either kind of relationship as long as it is organic. I personally don't think long term monogamy is a good idea, but for a while can be really healthy and I think that people in a sexual relationship must agree on what boundaries they want. Like I said earlier I'm sexually pretty liberal and I hope for the same.

Lastly, I need a woman who smells good. I've never encountered a "smelly" woman, thank God, but I have encountered women who use perfume that is so strong it killed any physical attraction.

So if you're a laid back sexually adventurous woman, that smells nice I would like to meet and see if we hit it off.